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It’s going to be hard, but you have to tell someone. Sexual abuse is completely unacceptable, especially from your own dad. The fact that he did it to you and let his friends do it as well is absolutely disgusting and you should not be in his custody. If there is any family members who you can trust tell them. This man may be your father and you dont want to get him into trouble, but him and his friends could be doing this to others as well. Keeping it a secret could be making other girls get abused in the same way you did. I would recommend counselling but the first step is to tell someone.
Be strong! Aprilxx
You’re only 14 so you’re still growing, this means of course you have a few inches to go but you’re genetics mean that it’s unsure whether or not you’ll make it to 5”9 but hey, you never know! Good luck with your future!
The age difference means that the two of you are both in different stages of your life and you’re both at different maturity levels. There’s nothing wrong with dating an 18 year old but it’s extremely unlikely you two will last, and very likely he will pressure you into things you are not ready for.. Be strong!
Sure thing, we help anyone :) Since you guys are friends who can speak so openly to each other then you should try telling her how you feel! Don’t freak her out or anything and buy a huge bouquet of flowers or anything though haha just try bring it into conversation and see what happens. Sure, if she doesn’t feel the same things might be a little strange for a while but it’s nothing you guys can’t work through! Try drop a few hints before you tell her how you feel so it’s not totally out of the blue though :)
Hey! First things first you really need to get the morning after pill ASAP! Seriously, the embarrassment of going to get the morning after pill is a hundred times better than the embarrassment of being pregnant, right? If you have any close friends who know about what happened they might go and get the pill for you if you asked. As much as I’d like to tell you that there is no chance of being pregnant off something like that, there is every chance you are even though he never came in you. If it’s been too long after you had sex to take the morning after pill then visit a doctor as soon as possible. Your parent’s don’t have to find out why you’re visiting or anything but make sure you deal with this situation sooner than later :) I hope everything works out for you!
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hey how exciting! sounds like youre ready so i’d say relax your body as much as possible, make sure you’re really (have to say this) wet/use lube so its more comfortable!
also light some candles too to set the mood and make it special
- soph xx